Don't twist this around as to me changing my mind and you were doing me a favor.
Your website described the delivery of your nightbird dress as 3-4 weeks, which you have now changed to 4-6 weeks. If you offer a particular service and then change that around after payment, then that is called 'bait and switch', which is a form of fraud and it's against the law.
In fact, in July 6th, under the name of Carita Hill, you offered me a refund, which I then asked for and promptly you had my future emails bounce back after that. (you even confirmed to me in a later email exchange, that you will have emails from me bounce back).
As you've seen, I don't go away that easily. You're defrauding people, that's all there is to it. And trying to offer the paid for products a year or 2 later, after people have been squeakly wheels, does not make up for it.